DANGEROUS TERMS IN SPANKING
( This page was a reproduced article on our original site , unfortunately it was deleted . We will now progressively rewrite it here , as time permits . )
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( for use in face to face meetings ) .
Dangerous terms are those which can occur in both written and verbal communications when arranging a spanking etc . These terms are warnings and should lift your level of awareness when used .
Dangerous terms can be your first hint of trouble . Other means of communication , such as appearance and deportment ( body language ) , are more important than the use of these terms to your safety . Always go with your ” gut ” feelings in spanking situations . Several links are at the bottom of this page to pages about physical etc safety .
GENERAL WARNING SIGNS
- Failure to provide direct answers to direct questions .
- Use of obsessive , overly religious or moral language .
- Physical appearance is significantly different from his or her online persona .
- Last minute changes to arranged meetings .
- Excessive nervousness .
- Can not look you in the eye .
DANGEROUS WORDS AND PHRASES
- I don’t want you to tell anyone else about me .
- Do not believe what other people say about me .
- Yes , what they told you was true , but I have changed .
- You should only trust what I tell you and not listen to anyone else .
- Rape
- Hit
- Beat
- Burn
- Scar
- Cut
- Break
- Hate
- Slut
- Cunt
- Bitch
- Whore
- Choke
- Strangle
- Blood
- Whip ( depending on circumstances )
- Torture
- Pass out
Advice for women on avoiding dangerous men .
( A small part of an article at fondlyandfirmly.com )
The Signs :
- Does he get jealous easily ?
- Does he come across controlling and demanding ?
- How does he act when he is angry and upset ?
- Is he sensitive to other’s feelings and yours ?
- How does he treat his friends, family, kids and his mother ?
- What was his relationship with his mother like as a child ?
- Was there abuse of any kind in his life ?
- Let him talk about past girlfriends and wives . This will tell you a lot .
………………………FROM : fondlyandfirmly.com
( for use in face to face meetings ) .
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