Dangerous terms in S/M and spanking

DANGEROUS TERMS IN SPANKING

( This page was a reproduced article on our original site , unfortunately it was deleted . We will now progressively rewrite it here , as time permits . )

SAFE CALL PROFORMA Page
( for use in face to face meetings ) .

Dangerous terms are those which can occur in both written and verbal communications when arranging a spanking etc . These terms are warnings and should lift your level of awareness when used .

Dangerous terms can be your first hint of trouble . Other means of communication , such as appearance and deportment ( body language ) , are more important than the use of these terms to your safety . Always go with your ” gut ” feelings in spanking situations . Several links are at the bottom of this page to pages about physical etc safety .

GENERAL WARNING SIGNS

  • Failure to provide direct answers to direct questions .
  • Use of obsessive , overly religious or moral language .
  • Physical appearance is significantly different from his or her online persona .
  • Last minute changes to arranged meetings .
  • Excessive nervousness .
  • Can not look you in the eye .

DANGEROUS WORDS AND PHRASES

  • I don’t want you to tell anyone else about me .
  • Do not believe what other people say about me .
  • Yes , what they told you was true , but I have changed .
  • You should only trust what I tell you and not listen to anyone else .
  • Rape
  • Hit
  • Beat
  • Burn
  • Scar
  • Cut
  • Break
  • Hate
  • Slut
  • Cunt
  • Bitch
  • Whore
  • Choke
  • Strangle
  • Blood
  • Whip ( depending on circumstances )
  • Torture
  • Pass out

Advice for women on avoiding dangerous men .

( A small part of an article at fondlyandfirmly.com )

 

The Signs :

  • Does he get jealous easily ?
  • Does he come across controlling and demanding ?
  • How does he act when he is angry and upset ?
  • Is he sensitive to other’s feelings and yours ?
  • How does he treat his friends, family, kids and his mother ?
  • What was his relationship with his mother like as a child ?
  • Was there abuse of any kind in his life ?
  • Let him talk about past girlfriends and wives . This will tell you a lot .

………………………FROM : fondlyandfirmly.com



( for use in face to face meetings ) .

TEN TIPS FOR SAFE ONLINE DATING
 

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