The overall ” ambiance ” , ” feel ” or effect of a spanking is the result of the interplay of a number of factors . These factors include :
- The prior planning or spontaneity of the event .
- The people involved and their relationship . ( See SPANKING ” MIXES “ . )
- CONSENT and the so called ” POWER EXCHANGE ” .
- Physical factors , such as the SEVERITY of the spanking , the POSITION(S) used , the IMPLEMENT(S) used and CLOTHING .
- The LOCATION of the spanking , including the background atmosphere ( music , lighting , etc . ) .
- The REACTIONS of the people involved .
Participants should strive to make each spanking memorable in it’s own way .