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I’ve never posted here before, but I must admit to being more than a little ‘spank curious’. I often fantasise about meeting up with a younger women (I’m 41 and single) putting her over my knee and spanking her bare bottom. Where this urge came from I don’t know, but I suspect its always been there in one form or another, lacking only the opportunity, the time and the place.
The thing is … I’ve never actually carried out my fantasy, thinking of it as a dark secret. I did once mention it to a previous girlfriend, and she thought about it for a while but told me, ‘That’s not my scene’. I certainly wouldn’t describe myself as ‘dominant’, and I’m not really interested in CP (though to a certain extent I can understand it). My interest only revolves around the lighter side of OTK play. Using implements doesn’t really appeal to me either: I’m very gentle by nature, which is again why I’ve never understood my (so far very private) interest.
I suppose I’m looking for feedback and/or advice. I would like to try an OTK session, but I have no idea where to begin. How do I begin? Later on I’ll ask myself, ‘Do I even want to begin?’ There must be 1,000s of people out there just like me, but I’m not sure if spanking could – or should – form the basis of a relationship.
What’s really curious is that a friend of mine said – quite out of the blue – ‘I think you’re the dominant type! You want to whip someone?’ I suddenly felt naked: she was wrong, but not far off! How strange that something like that should be apparent to just one person … as far as I know. She also said, ‘You’re like a gay person who hasn’t ‘come out yet’. Right again: sometimes your friends can see more than they let on.
Bye the way: thanks for producing this site. I’ve just left a vanilla dating site where the people seemed a lot less articulate than some of the ‘posters’ on here. Many thanks for reading.