Female to male spanking is another”mix”of spanking activity . It can be just a spanking, a prelude to sexual activity or used as discipline ( see SPENCER and SpankingLife Plans ). It may also happen as a”turnaround”( SWITCH ) spanking.
Many women are turned on by the site of a male buttocks, ( that is one with well developed gluteus maximus muscles ) and this may lead to a desire to get their hands onto them.
Other women are more interested in”control””issues”when spanking men ( see POWER EXCHANGE ). Spanking is an interesting extension of the “Battle of the Sexes” .
Some men love to be spanked and pay for the privilege. There is a natural reticence amongst some women to spank, generally because of a fear of hurting the person. There may be other mental impediments ( which generally can be overcome with discussion and a little information, such as on the FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS Page.
The old saying of”Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”also applies to spanking. There is nothing wrong with bringing the subject up, obliquely if you like (“You should have your bottom smacked for that !”etc. ) or more directly with a smack or two. Remember that men let women get away with a lot more than in the reverse situation. A little spanking is a great way to get passion into a relationship and a varying the AMBIANCE of the occasion will keep it there.
The physical problems presented by a difference in size may be overcome in a variety of ways, see HOW A SMALLER PERSON CAN SPANK A LARGER PERSON .
Even in a predominately male / female spanking relationship, the occasional reverse spanking will level the playing field and release tensions.
We try to keep sex out of the spanking equation for various reasons ( see FAQ Page ). Likewise, the sex of the participants is not regarded as a major factor in our pages. Our visitors are interested in the following approximate”mixes”in spanking :
55 % Male / Female
30 % Female / Male
10 % Female / Female
5 % Male / Male
This ratio is replicated in our pages, where possible. ( Some things are difficult to come by, for example, Female / Male cartoons from the 1950 ‘s. )
Many visitors are interested in more than one”mix”, e.g.” SWITCHES “who reverse roles.