The Guide For Female To Male Spanking

Female to male spanking is another”mix”of spanking activity . It can be just a spanking, a prelude to sexual activity or used as discipline ( see  SPENCER  and  SpankingLife  Plans ). It may also happen as a”turnaround”(  SWITCH  ) spanking.

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Many women are turned on by the site of a male buttocks, ( that is one with well developed gluteus maximus muscles ) and this may lead to a desire to get their hands onto them.

Other women are more interested in”control””issues”when spanking men ( see  POWER EXCHANGE  ). Spanking is an interesting extension of the  “Battle of the Sexes” .

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Some men love to be spanked and pay for the privilege. There is a natural reticence amongst some women to spank, generally because of a fear of hurting the person. There may be other mental impediments ( which generally can be overcome with discussion and a little information, such as on the  FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS  Page.

The old saying of”Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”also applies to spanking. There is nothing wrong with bringing the subject up, obliquely if you like (“You should have your bottom smacked for that !”etc. ) or more directly with a smack or two. Remember that men let women get away with a lot more than in the reverse situation. A little spanking is a great way to get passion into a relationship and a varying the  AMBIANCE  of the occasion will keep it there.

The physical problems presented by a difference in size may be overcome in a variety of ways, see  HOW A SMALLER PERSON CAN SPANK A LARGER PERSON .

Even in a predominately male / female spanking relationship, the occasional reverse spanking will level the playing field and release tensions.

We try to keep sex out of the spanking equation for various reasons ( see  FAQ  Page ). Likewise, the sex of the participants is not regarded as a major factor in our pages. Our visitors are interested in the following approximate”mixes”in spanking :

55 %  Male / Female

30 %  Female / Male

10 %  Female / Female

5 % Male / Male

This ratio is replicated in our pages, where possible. ( Some things are difficult to come by, for example, Female / Male cartoons from the 1950 ‘s. )

Many visitors are interested in more than one”mix”, e.g.” SWITCHES “who reverse roles.

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5 Comments

  1. I maybe the only guy–as I could never speak of getting paddled to my guy friends–I would be laughed out of this town—For certain bad conduct on my part—of which we both agree—I take a bare paddling form my wife. it is only one or two times in a year. It is always the same thing—drinking and doing stuff with my male friends–of which my more religious wife is offended—Its a great marriage and a long marriage. When I have earned a paddling there is no argument from me—I got it coming—I quick shower–just bend over out of the shower, hold my shins and she paddles my naked butt and it hurts like crazy—We both know at the same time when a paddling has to settle things—Since only the two of us know there is no matter of embarrassment or shame–just a damn good paddling and damn sore bare butt—-After the paddling there is no lingering anger or harsh feeling–things are great again. Its weird–when I am out with my male friends I am thinking–“It won’t hurt that much!” When I am showering and bending over–I am thinking “What a damn fool–this really hurts BAD”

  2. I maybe the only guy–as I could never speak of getting paddled to my guy friends–I would be laughed out of this town—For certain bad conduct on my part—of which we both agree—I take a bare paddling form my wife. it is only one or two times in a year. It is always the same thing—drinking and doing stuff with my male friends–of which my more religious wife is offended—Its a great marriage and a long marriage. When I have earned a paddling there is no argument from me—I got it coming—I quick shower–just bend over out of the shower, hold my shins and she paddles my naked butt and it hurts like crazy—We both know at the same time when a paddling has to settle things—Since only the two of us know there is no matter of embarrassment or shame–just a damn good paddling and damn sore bare butt—-After the paddling there is no lingering anger or harsh feeling–things are great again. Its weird–when I am out with my male friends I am thinking–“It won’t hurt that much!” When I am showering and bending over–I am thinking “What a damn fool–this really hurts BAD”

  3. Even when getting spanked by the (supposedly) weaker sex, one should be aware of ones own physical limitations and not overdo things.

    My darling woman is normaly a bit reluctant to spank really hard, but I egged her on till she gave in and decided to give me a ‘real ass-beating’ with the bathbrush.

    Once I was over her lap she started hitting with all her might and I soon felt like between hammer and anvil! The beating was so bad, I had blood in my urin afterwards. Which was a bit of a shock.

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